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Tip of the Month
Fact is, it's hard not to get excited as a sports parent. We love our kids and want what's best for them. Unfortunately, dreams of local celebrity, college scholarships, winning and super stardom get some of us a little to excited. No matter how knowledgeable, fair, or kind you are to your players, you can probably expect a disgruntled parent or two to crop up during the season. Here are a few tips that you might find helpful when dealing with these situations.

1. Don't discuss the issue at the game.

The first thing the coach should avoid is discussing the problem with the parent on the field, especially if he/she is visibly upset. You do not need your players becoming upset and losing your focus on them.

2. Schedule a seperate time/venue to have the discussion.

Rather than discuss the problem then and there, the coach should agree to meet or telephone the parent at a mutually convienient time to discuss the complaint. By doing this, you avoid giving the parent an audience, allowing him/her to "cool off" and give yourself time to prepare an appriopriate response to the complaint.

3. Be an active listener.

When you eventually talk to the parent, one of the most important things you can do is be an active listener. Doing things like taking notes, maintaining eye contact and nodding to acknowledge you have heard what the parent is saying are crucial.
 
See you on the ball field.



RMBA coaches are always striving to better their coaching philosophies and techniques. Here are a few sites that can help coaches hone their skills:

Baseball BC Resource Library
A great instructional site with useful drills. Lots of example video. This resource is accessible to members who purchase an annual subscription.